Consider putting 10% of your energy into making our most important relationships thrive!  It would have a global impact on our lives.  Intimate relationships influence our level of happiness more any another factor, yet frequently resolving conflict and problems is difficult. Learning to communicate in a manner that validates our partner allows us to transform anger, resentment, and fear to empathy and compassion.  When this occurs relationships become healing and trans-formative.  

"Life is found in the dance between your deepest desire and your greatest fear."